thank you Ken,

I have 2 headlight relays (one for each side) from Jay Brown... I guess
they are the same as yours isn't it?

anyway I found that the light bulb headlight connector was burn a bit... I
clean it up and it's working now but not sure for how long...

so I ordered the ceramic headlight connectors from RMW
http://www.rockymountainwesty.com/product_p/h4-312.htm

if this work (which I think) I'd would recommend it to all...

dan